Friday, August 24, 2012

No Sex = No Problem

People make bookings with sex workers for many different reasons. Sex is probably the number one reason. But its not the ONLY reason. Some people out there in society dont know about these people and they refuse to believe that no sex within a paid time actually occurs! Even some regular punters/clients find it bizarre when they hear about it!

In most bookings sex occurs. This is a fact.

But in some bookings, there is no sex. Its not what the client is looking for. These bookings happen more than you think. I dont work all that much but at least once a month i get a booking where no sex is required.

You may be asking - "If there is no sex, what do you do? Isn't it a waste of money?"

Clients who are not looking for sex, fall into many different categories. There's the married Gent who doesnt want intercourse, as that in his eyes is cheating... then there's the single Gent who hasn't had another human touch him, even for a cuddle, since his last sex worker visit, who just wants to massage me and chat and get touched and hugged... then there is the Gent who doesnt get off from intercourse, who only gets off on making a woman cum.. then theres the Gent who has a fetish for tickled... Then there is the Gent who is disabled in some way and physically cannot have sex and just likes female company....then theres the Gent who is lonely and just wants to sit and have a drink and have someone really listen to what he has to say.. i could go on and on.. all of them are different, all of them are unique, all of them have their reasons..

Do they think its a waste of money? Hell no! They got exactly what they were looking for, exactly what their soul needed to keep on chugging along in life, exactly what they needed to put that spring in their step :)

The reason im talking about this today, i saw a review on a punter forum. It was about a booking that happened where no sex took place. The client was very happy! He wrote a great review! He even said he would go back and see that lady again!!

He was charged a lower rate per hour than a full service rate. Some sex workers do this, (i personally do not, but i am in a lower price bracket to this example) and he was very happy about the lower rate he paid! I think it might have been half her normal rate! 

The comments that followed this lovely review were... were... well they pissed me off! Punters making posts  that seemed to in a way put the poor guy down! 

"$250 PER HOUR what???!!! " 

"$250 and no happy ending? Not even a hand job? I've never heard of this type of service before."

"nice review...but "

Well... reading those comments made me cranky!


Yes, you may go to see a sex worker because you want to fuck. You want dick in punani action!


Not everyone is like you! 

Any reason you go to see a sex worker is YOUR OWN. It is your choice to have sex or not! 

Please dont make someone else feel abnormal for requesting something that you yourself would never contemplate!

Most sex workers will say, "You pay me for time, not sex"  and this is true. Each time we have a booking, the whole time we are with you, even if we physically arent "working" ie: having sex, we are still working by tuning ourselves into your world and devoting our time to making you happy.

I can tell you right now, for me, the sex part of the job is the easy bit! If i could just have sex and no other stuff, it would be a breeze! What is difficult sometimes is conversing with clients. It can be draining. Not with everyone, but some people can be mentally hard work. 

Even without sex, while you spend time with us, we are thinking of you and only you, we are actually listening to what you say, we take an interest in what you are talking about, we sometimes even learn stuff from you! Do that a few times a day and we can end up emotionally drained! 

You might see me as a quick fuck.. but some clients see me as a friend, a counsellor, a massage therapist, a life coach, a supportive ear.....

No sex = no problem. 


  1. hear hear I agree wholeheartedly with everything you say. I love clients that don't want sex just for the change of pace but agree that many are mentally draining - this is probably why we can't work 24/7


  2. Agreed that the sex part is the easy part.

  3. Depends - think of some people at a super market check out on minimum wage of around $17 an hour, having their ear talked off by various people who have to unload their story whilst doing manual labour of bag packing.

    So in those regards perhaps some incredulity at $250 an hour is warranted.

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  6. Definitely agree with you Holly. I have accumulated many happy memories of the women I have encountered over the years - and often it's a little kindness; a cigarette shared because the sex was good; a few words or comments made; or just wiping my back - that I now recall with fondness. That brief relationship you described working at to create is what lingers in the memory.