Slave to Society?

So this morning after waking up and washing the dye out of my hair that i had left in while i slept :p i jumped online, the usual morning coffee routine of checking all the sites i go to and catching up on stuff, i was on twitter and saw a retweeted conversation that was going on between one of my followers and an actor dude from London who was anti sex work.

 So OF COURSE when i saw the tweet, i had to throw my 20cents worth in there but OMG it is so hard to say what you REALLY want to say in 144 characters and THEN when you have typed out a bit and you need to do a 2nd a 3rd tweet to say what you gotta say and a tweet doesnt go through blah blah. its annoying so i thought id write a blog instead lol. So there are some tweets that appeared from this actor guy and a few other randoms butting in and the conversation was going nuts lol but there were a few that i wanted to make comment on...

Im So Sick Of The Hate!

I think im a pretty good person over all. Sure i do some naughty things that some people would never consider - shit, being a sex worker is a little naughty to most! But i have a good heart, i try to help people, i dont spread lies about people, i do my best to be a good person, a good sex worker , a good daughter, a good sister.......

10 Year Old Dreams

I saw a documentary about sex workers and in it, a lady said something along the lines of  "At 10yrs old, nobody dreams of being a prostitute"

This is true. I have not met anyone who at 10 wanted to be a sex worker.
I do however know a girl, who at 16 yrs old knew she wanted to do it! She was a smart lady. I met her when she was 34. Thats 18yrs in the industry. She noted every job she did, every extra she charged, she paid tax on the lot from day one, had property all over the place.. she enjoyed the work, and im pretty certain she could have retired comfortably at that age, but

The More I Have, The More I Want

I have noticed over the years, the more sex I have, the more I feel the need to masturbate.
But can I just say, I HATE calling it “masturbating”, I shall hence force call it “wanking” and by “wanking” I mean getting out a vibrator and using it to make myself cum.

So back to what I was saying - the more I have, the more I want!

My research has been extensive, compiled over a decade! I still don’t know the reason for this phenomenon, but I have noticed some strong patterns…

No Sex = No Problem

People make bookings with sex workers for many different reasons. Sex is probably the number one reason. But its not the ONLY reason. Some people out there in society dont know about these people and they refuse to believe that no sex within a paid time actually occurs! Even some regular punters/clients find it bizarre when they hear about it!

In most bookings sex occurs. This is a fact.

But in some bookings, there is no sex. Its not what the client is looking for. These bookings happen more than you think. I dont work all that much but at least once a month i get a booking where no sex is required.

You may be asking - "If there is no sex, what do you do? Isn't it a waste of money?"

Whore Violence

In life, some bad shit happens to people.
Sometimes this is because of choices we make... and sometimes its not.

I have been spat on
pushed to ground
had my arms twisted behind my back
a pillow placed over my head to suffocate me
strangled multiple times
slapped in the face and body
held hostage for over 60hrs
woken up to a knife in my face
punched closed fist in the mouth
cut along my legs when i refused sex

What's The Point If No One Pays Attention?

A little while ago there was an awesome report done on the New South Wales Sex Industry. It was called the Lash report and it was for the Minister of health (which can be found here->  http://nothing-about-us-without-us.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/03/LASH_NSW-Sex-Industry-Report_2012.pdf )  .. It was a good report and it was done by a University who studied sex workers and by golly, they did an awesome job!

After the report came out, it made the papers!

Media was saying great things about the NSW sex industry, saying as a sex worker, we have it so good and we are healthy and pretty balanced.. We don’t have any more sti’s or std’s than the general population.. It was a huge deal and it was a great example of how decriminlisation is working in this particular state!

YAY NEW SOUTH WALES!!!!